Category Intimacy

In business, organizations hold regular meetings to assess productivity, address shortcomings, and strategize for improvement. Employees review their performance, evaluate successes and failures, and set goals for the future.  Yet, in marriage, the most important partnership of all, many couples…

Love is meant to be a haven where trust, respect, and intimacy thrive. But what happens when love is weaponized? When “If you love me, you will do it” becomes a tool for manipulation rather than an expression of genuine…

In many traditional marriages, the husband has long been viewed as the primary provider. However, as society evolves, more women are excelling in their careers, sometimes out-earning their husbands.  While this shift should be seen as a positive reflection of…

One of the most debated topics among young couples today is the issue of privacy in marriage. Should spouses have unrestricted access to each other’s phones and social media accounts? Is sharing passwords a sign of trust or control? And…

Growing up in a large compound house, I witnessed my fair share of domestic disputes. Couples would exchange heated words, some escalating into full-blown fights.  I remember seeing a woman so angry, chasing her husband out of the apartment with…

In a hair salon, a group of ladies sat in eager anticipation as one of them raved about her man’s stamina in bed. She excitedly detailed how long he lasted, how often she reached orgasm, and how amazing their nights…

Marriage is a divine institution, beautifully woven with love, companionship, and physical intimacy. Apostle Paul, in his wisdom, acknowledged this when he said, “It is better to marry than to burn with passion” (1 Corinthians 7:9).  Yet, as much as…

In many African homes, faith plays a crucial role in shaping the values and tenets of marriage. Men and women alike, look up to their spiritual leaders for guidance, prayers, directions and counselling amongst others.  However, a growing concern is…

While taking pictures after their wedding ceremony, a woman suddenly appeared, holding the hand of a young boy. She claimed he was the groom’s son, born from a past relationship he had no idea resulted in pregnancy. Shock, anger, and…

Whereas several relationships are struggling to thrive, the dynamics in others are exceptionally beautiful. For instance, some couples operate with full transparency, constantly updating each other on their whereabouts, sharing schedules, and staying connected through frequent calls and texts. To…