Inspiring Change Every Day with Grace
I Did It All
Some temptations are stronger in boardrooms and brainstorming sessions, in group chats and group projects, in subtle ways, like the moment when praise is floating in the air and your name could take up all the space. It’s the desire to take all the credit, even when the work wasn’t yours alone.
Perhaps, you’ve had a taste of it before. That little rush you feel when your boss compliments a team effort and your name is the first (and only) one mentioned. You smile. You nod.
And even though three others pulled all-nighters with you, you let the moment roll without correction. Why? Because being seen feels good. Being praised feels validating. But over time, this habit chips away at trust, relationships, and even our self-worth.
The need to own recognition is often rooted in something deeper. Insecurity. Competition. Fear that if we don’t speak up for ourselves, we’ll be forgotten.
Maybe even fear that we don’t matter unless someone’s clapping for us. Don’t ever forget there is strength in saying, “We did this.” It doesn’t take away the recognition from you.
When you’re tempted to take all the credit, you also open the door to isolation. No one wants to keep building with someone who always takes more than they give. Even if we don’t see it immediately, people remember how we made them feel.
Recognition is currency, and sharing it pays off in loyalty, respect, and long-term growth. Hoarding it might make you rich at the moment, but bankrupt in the relationships that matter.
One of the best ways to fight this temptation is through intentional gratitude. Make it a habit to name the people who helped you succeed. Mention them in rooms they’re not in.
Lift their work without being asked. These small actions build a reputation far more valuable than solo spotlight moments. And the truth is, when you shine a light on others, you don’t lose yours, you reflect it.
We all want to feel valuable. We want our work to count. But sometimes the most powerful move is to acknowledge that we didn’t get here alone.
That someone stayed late, offered an idea, took the pressure off, and gave support when it was most needed. When we start living from that awareness, we stop measuring success by applause and start measuring it by impact.
So, if you’ve ever been in that position, tempted to own it all, this is your gentle nudge. Next time you’re given the mic, share it. Because real greatness is never achieved alone.
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