Inspiring Change Every Day with Grace
Desire is a messenger that carries information about what matters to you. This includes, inter - alia, connection, purpose, intimacy, expression, and growth. It gives you a sense of direction when you listen to its leading with wisdom. However, when you ignore it for too long, denial begins to set in and eventually distorts desire.
Desire is not something you are meant to fear. It is part of living. Many of us have been taught two extremes: either indulge every desire because “this is who you are,” or bury it completely because “good people don’t feel that.” Neither extreme produces wholeness.
Desire is a powerful tool for the execution of our daily activities. It wakes you up in the morning, fuels ambition, romance, creativity, and hope, among others. Without desire, life would feel dull and mechanical.
Desire was never designed to be hijacked, but it has become the order of the day in this dispensation. What used to move us toward meaningful goals now gets redirected toward instant stimulation.
Desire does not grow in isolation. It is deeply influenced by your state. Your body, your emotions, inter - alia, and your environment play important roles in your desires.
Desire begins innocently. It attracts and stirs curiosity. You see something, feel something, imagine something and a spark is born. Desire, in its healthy form, is a creative force that moves you toward growth, connection, ambition, or intimacy.
Desire is not the villain we often make it out to be. It is raw human energy that is deeply revealing. What we long for usually points to something meaningful inside us: connection, affirmation, purpose, pleasure, rest.
Desire matures the same way people do by moving from intensity to depth. Desire does not disappear in long-term love, it changes shape. Early desire is often like a spark that demands attention.
Have you met that person yet? The one with whom conversations flow effortlessly. Their presence lights something up in you. You think about them more than you intend to. They give you a certain electric feeling that almost alters the air around you.
Many of our strongest desires rise from the shadow self: the parts of us we learned to hide, silence, or disown because they felt unsafe, unacceptable, or inconvenient. Desire becomes the language those parts use when they finally want to be seen.